Self-esteem Check List

by Dr. Shirley N. Gruen

Know yourself. Do things for yourself. Don't expect your child to fulfill your dream.

Know the appropriate behavior for your child's age group.

Let your child know that he has your unconditional love - but not permissiveness.

Separate your child from the behavior you are disciplining.

Have genuine encounters with your child - stoop to your child's level.

Be consistent with discipline. Avoid mixed messages.

Deal with feelings. Listen to what your child is telling you.

Dr. Shirley Gruen maintains her practice in clinical psychology in Southwest Houston, Fort Bend County, and Brazoria County. Her certifications include: Licensed Psychologist, Certified Chemical Dependency Specialist, and Licensed Specialist in School Psychology. In addition, she is certified by the American College of Forensic Examiners and the Professional Academy of Custody Evaluators to provide consultation and evaluation in court and custody related matters. Dr. Gruen has earned a Post-Doctoral Master of Science Degree in Clinical Psychopharmacology and is a Board Certified, Diplomate-Master Fellow in Psychopharmacology. You can find information about Dr. Shirley Gruen at her web site: www.TalkingDoc.com