When talking with parents over the years, one word seems to always come into the discussion.  “CONSISTENCY”  Why is this so important when dealing with children, of all ages?  Our children depend on us as parents to establish the routine, even if the stubborn adolescent complains about all the “rules”.  I believe that consistent parenting with follow-through gives our children a safety net that catches them when they stumble.  If we can outline clear expectations and our children understand the consequences, good or bad, they are able to learn safe and effective boundaries.  Without such boundaries, they could feel lost and distrustful.  So, I encourage all parents to be consistent because it pays off in a well-adjusted, self-confident child.

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