Dear C,
First, let me give
you a few statistics about marijuana abuse. Marijuana is the most commonly
used illicit drug in the United States. Between 1999 and 2001, students
across the country over the age of 12 were surveyed, and it was found
that 76 percent of them had tried marijuana at least once. And 83 to 90
percent of every 12th grade class surveyed said it was “fairly easy”
or “very easy” for them to get marijuana.
You said you weren’t
sure if your 16 year old son was using marijuana but you thought he might
be. Based on the statistics above, there would seem to be a 76 percent
chance he is using it or has tried it at least once. I know this must
be a very disturbing thought for you because good parents always want
the best for their children. You indicated you weren’t sure if using
this drug was “all that harmful” since it seems so prevalent.
Below are some of the harmful effects that the use of marijuana abuse
can cause.
With marijuana abuse
there are multiple adverse effects on the body. Short term effects on
the brain can include problems with memory, learning, distorted perception,
problem solving, and coordination, just to mention a few. Any of these
can greatly affect performance in school, sports, driving, and on the
job.
However, the brain
is not the only part of the body affected by marijuana abuse. Studies
have shown that for up to an hour after smoking marijuana, the risk of
heart attack quadruples. Researchers believe this is due to the effects
of marijuana on blood pressure, the heart rate, and the reduced capacity
of the blood to carry oxygen to the vital organs of the body.
Other studies have also shown
that the risk of cancer of the head and neck is greatly increased by marijuana
use. And the more marijuana smoked, the greater the risk. Marijuana use
also brings with it many of the risks found with tobacco smoking such
as respiratory infections, chronic cough, and lung cancer. It also impairs
the immune system’s ability to fight off infectious diseases.
The bad news is that the problems
shown above are only some of the health problems that may arise from marijuana
use. Heavy and long term marijuana use can bring about other problems
such as personality disturbances, anxiety, and depression. It can also
lead to addiction where the person uses the drug compulsively even though
it interferes with family, school, work, and other normal life activities.
I believe this shows that you should definitely be concerned about your
son using marijuana.
The good news is that
experimentation with drugs does not always lead to addiction. For example,
most people who smoke or drink alcohol do not become physically dependent
on these drugs. But psychological dependence can develop relatively rapidly.
The regular use of "soft" drugs, such as marijuana, does not
necessarily result in addiction to "hard" drugs. However, most
people who go on to use "hard" drugs used "soft" drugs
first, which is why they are considered "gateway" drugs to other
illicit drug use. Therefore, even experimentation with drugs must not
be ignored.
You, as a parent, are one of
the best preventative measures against drug use that you can provide your
son. Parents need to set a good example for their children. Trust and
communication are the greatest gifts parents can give their children.
Your son needs to trust you enough that he can come to you and talk about
anything without fear of reprisal. And this can be a test of your own
strength of character.
An important step in keeping
children off drugs is to build up their self-esteem. Children with a positive
self-image stand a better chance against peer pressure. Parents must help
their children know they are special creations and are worthy of dignity
and respect. Parents should monitor their children's friendships. Before
they allow their children to spend too much time with another child, parents
should get to know the other child's family. This does not change just
because your child is a teenager.
Drug education cannot be left
to the schools. Parents have to be personally involved and let their kids
know that drugs will not be tolerated. Parents themselves should be educated
about drugs and drug paraphernalia. Also provide alternatives to drugs
by keeping your children busy and involved in various community, family,
school, and church activities.
I hope this has given you some
insight into why you should be concerned about your son using marijuana
and how important parents are in the prevention of drug use in children.
If you would like additional information about this problem you might
want to check out this government website, http://www.drugabuse.gov .
I wish you and your family
the best in the challenges you may face. But always remember our children
are our most important assets and worth whatever effort we have to put
forth in order for them to lead healthy and productive lives.
If there is any other
information you would like on this or any other topic, please do not hesitate
to contact me.
Regards, Carole
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